The significant theme of my
life has to be that I am a Chartered Accountant, a qualification I am eternally
thankful to God for. My life is pretty similar to most of you who may be from
non metros. It is only that my life has had some strange twists and turns
with an ending that is reasonably comfortable now.
I was born and brought up in Suchindrum (a small village in kanyakumari
District) and my father worked in the temple having a monthly Income of
Rs.150/- which he used to feed our 5 member family. Our family is typically
what one would describe as below poverty line and my school studies went on in
a Government school
I did not like the idea of
being married because it spoilt my education and I fought like a cat with my
husband at every possible opportunity. He bore it all patiently and won
my heart over. Soon, we had a baby daughter and Education’s loss was a personal
gain for I believed I had the best husband in the world. I was in a state
of domestic bliss with a second son and a strong 7 year marriage
Fate dealt a cruel blow and
my husband met with an accident unexpectedly and left me alone with 2 kids aged
2 and 4. I was depressed and my future looked bleak if not non existent. My
professional life as well as my personal Life were both half way at sea.
God showed me the way and I
was now determined to completed the CA course. If not for my sake, for
the sake of my childrens future. I did not have the money to support my
kids and both my parents and in laws were not able to either. As a one
group Inter CA pass, I joined in Muthoot Fincorp Ltd in Nagercoil for a
monthly salary of Rs.2000/-and worked for 5 years and saved a lakh and with
that amount i came to chennai leaving my kids with my mother. God was witth me
and I completed 2nd group of CA Inter as well. The days were terrible as
I stayed in a Hostel alone and had left my children behind. A life, that
I would not wish for anyone.
Life offers solace as much as
it offers problems. I was blessed with a fine mentor a certain Mr.R K
Nair who was a chartered Accountant and the GM of Muthoot Fincorp Ltd. He only
motivated me to continue my studies and always told me that he believed that I
could conquer the whole world and not just a CA course.
In the 12 years that had
passed between my articles and the exams, the course had undergone a drastic
change. I remember attending Accounts classes and would be in tears as I
would not even understand a word. I remember crying all the way for a 5
km stretch from my classroom to the hostel. I studied all day and night
and was thrilled that I cleared the final first group in the first attempt
itself ( after a 12 year break ). The result restored my confidence but group
two eluded me with three attempts.
The days from 2000 to 2007
were one of hunger and self pity. My first and my only job to date has
been with leading private bank where I am a Senior Manager, and in the last 6.5
years I have managed to pick a property, a car and save some money as
well. Presently my daughter is doing CA/CPA and my son is doing B Com 1st
year.
I am eternally thankful to
Shri M P Vijayakumar, Shri N R Govindarajan, Shri G Sekar and Shri Sivakumar
who I hope are reading this blog somewhere. I see a lot of young
kids complaining about failures and I have only one piece of advice for
them. When there is no wind , please row and there is a God guiding your
boat and your oars. Tough times do not last, tough people do !
For any one in need, am
always there to lend a shoulder.
CA Thanammai R